From Diapers to Decisions: MotherToBaby & NDBN Tackle Parents’ Top Concerns

By Lorrie Harris-Sagaribay, MPH, President of OTIS/MotherToBaby, in partnership with Joanne Samuel Goldblum, CEO and founder of National Diaper Bank Network.

MotherToBaby is proud to partner with the National Diaper Bank Network (NDBN) as the organization marks its 15th anniversary in 2026 – celebrating a decade and a half of supporting families across the country by ensuring access to diapers and other essential material needs. Through our partnership, we’ve learned that many parents and caregivers, especially those who are pregnant or caring for newborns, often ask the same kinds of questions about everyday exposures during pregnancy and lactation.

These concerns come straight from the field, as NDBN staff and volunteers working directly with families hear questions like these every day. To help answer them, MotherToBaby experts weigh in on some of the families’ most common questions about pregnancy and breastfeeding exposures.

First, it’s important to remember that birth defects can happen in any pregnancy for different reasons. Out of all babies born each year, about 3 out of 100 (3%) will have a birth defect. Pregnancy problems (like miscarriage) can also happen in any pregnancy. MotherToBaby looks at research studies to understand if a certain exposure could increase the chance of birth defects or other problems in a pregnancy.

Here are five of the exposures that NBDN families ask about most frequently:

1. Caffeine

During pregnancy, it’s recommended to keep your caffeine intake to less than 200 milligrams (mg) per day from all sources, including coffee, tea, energy drinks, and chocolate. (For reference, an 8-ounce cup of brewed coffee can contain 70 to 140 mg of caffeine, depending on the type of coffee and how it is brewed.) During breastfeeding, it’s been suggested to stay under 300 mg per day, although that amount might be too high when the baby is very young (it takes young babies much longer than adults to process, or metabolize, caffeine). Even some older babies can be more sensitive to caffeine than others are. If you notice that your baby seems jittery, irritable, or wide awake in the middle of the night after you drink caffeine, you could consider cutting back.

Let’s talk more about energy drinks. Most energy drinks contain not only caffeine, sugar, and B vitamins, but also herbal ingredients that most likely haven’t been studied in pregnancy or breastfeeding. This means there is no information about how much of these ingredients might reach the developing baby during pregnancy or get into the breast milk. For this reason, it might be preferred to hold off on energy drinks until you aren’t pregnant or breastfeeding any longer.

2. Over-the-Counter Pain Medications

Two of the most common over-the-counter pain medications are acetaminophen (such as Tylenol®) and ibuprofen (such as Advil®). These pain relievers are also found in multi-symptom products, such as cold medications. During pregnancy, using acetaminophen for a short time when directed by a healthcare provider to treat pain or fever has not been shown to increase pregnancy risks. Acetaminophen should be used as directed and only for as long as you need it to treat your condition. Ibuprofen, on the other hand, is typically not recommended in pregnancy, especially in the second half of pregnancy, unless your healthcare provider has specifically advised using it.

During breastfeeding though, acetaminophen and ibuprofen can both be used as directed without expected side effects for the baby. The amount of acetaminophen or ibuprofen that gets into the breast milk is much less than the dose that could be given directly to an infant. 

3. Fish and Mercury

You might have heard a rumor that eating fish is not a good idea during pregnancy. But this is not the case. While it’s true that most fish could contain some amount of mercury (or more specifically, a form of mercury called methylmercury), these amounts are often too small to increase pregnancy risks as long as you make thoughtful choices about eating fish.

The amount of methylmercury in fish gets higher as fish move up the food chain. Big predatory fish that eat smaller fish usually have higher levels of methylmercury. These big fish include swordfish, marlin, bigeye tuna, and king mackerel, among others. These fish should be avoided during pregnancy and while breastfeeding.

Other kinds of fish can be enjoyed in moderation (1 to 3 servings per week, depending on the kind of fish and where it is caught). The U.S. Food & Drug Administration (FDA) and United States Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) developed a helpful guide that lists many kinds of fish and gives advice on how often they can be eaten by women who are pregnant or breastfeeding and by children ages 1-11 years: https://www.fda.gov/food/consumers/advice-about-eating-fish.

4. Cleaning Products

Is it better to use natural cleaning products like vinegar during pregnancy or while breastfeeding? What about when you have a young child in the home?

The way you use a cleaning product is usually more important than what the product is. Although using vinegar as a cleaner isn’t expected to increase risks during pregnancy or while breastfeeding, there could be some surfaces or situations that require more effective products for sanitizing and disinfecting. In order for a chemical to be able to reach a developing baby during pregnancy or to get into the breast milk, the chemical first has to be circulating in your bloodstream. As long as a product is used in a well-ventilated area (open doors or windows, turn on fans) and your skin is protected from direct contact with the cleaner, then using the cleaner as directed is unlikely to result in an exposure that would get into your bloodstream. If you start to feel any symptoms, such as nausea, dizziness, or headache, increase ventilation in the area and get some fresh air. If you do use vinegar to clean, be sure not to mix it with ammonia or other chemicals, as that can create harmful fumes. With any cleaning product, follow the directions on the label for how to use and store it.

As far as what kinds of cleaners are preferred when you have young children in the home, that is a great question to talk about with your child’s healthcare provider. 

5. Animal Dander/Feces

Common household pets like dogs, cats, and rodents tend to be furry. Although pet dander itself is not known to be harmful during pregnancy or while breastfeeding, dander could increase the chance of breathing problems if you have significant allergies or asthma. If you are experiencing worsening symptoms of allergies or asthma during your pregnancy, be sure to talk about it with your healthcare provider. It’s also a good idea to wash your hands after handling any kind of rodent, even sweet, furry, household pets.

What about animal feces? It’s best to avoid direct contact with any animal feces during pregnancy. This means you get a free pass on cleaning the gerbil cage or scooping the litterbox, if possible. Cat feces, in particular, can contain a parasite responsible for an infection called toxoplasmosis, especially if the cat is allowed outside or is fed raw meat. A toxoplasmosis infection during pregnancy increases the chance of pregnancy complications, and could even pass to the fetus. There’s no need to rehome your cat or avoid petting it, but you should avoid direct contact with the cat’s feces while you are pregnant.     

Closing Thoughts

Through our partnership with NDBN, MotherToBaby is committed to answering the real questions families are asking—accurately, clearly, and compassionately. We know that parents want the best for their babies, and they deserve trusted, evidence-based information to make informed choices.

If you or someone you know has questions about exposures while pregnant or breastfeeding, you can contact a MotherToBaby specialist for free and confidential information via phone, text, or chat at MotherToBaby.org.

Together with NDBN, we’ll continue listening, learning, and supporting families when it matters most.

More About the National Diaper Bank Network

The National Diaper Bank Network (NDBN) leads a nationwide movement dedicated to helping individuals, children and families access the basic necessities they require to thrive and reach their full potential…including clean, dry diapers, period supplies and other basic needs. Launched in 2011 with the support of founding sponsor Huggies®, NDBN is dedicated to creating awareness of diaper need/diaper insecurity and advocating for public policy to end it. The Network is made up of more than 300 basic needs banks serving local communities throughout the U.S. More information on NDBN and diaper need is available at nationaldiaperbanknetwork.org, and on Twitter (@DiaperNetwork), Instagram (@DiaperNetwork) and Facebook (facebook.com/NationalDiaperBankNetwork).


From Diapers to Decisions: MotherToBaby & NDBN Tackle Parents’ Top Concerns

As the coronavirus that causes COVID-19 continues to spread, pregnant and breastfeeding women are understandably concerned. Many of your recent calls, chats, texts, and emails to MotherToBaby have been about the virus itself and how it might affect a developing baby or breastfed infant (more about that on our COVID-19 fact sheet). But we’re also hearing related concerns about how to stay safe and healthy while pregnant or breastfeeding during the pandemic. Here, we answer some of the most common questions we’re getting during this uncertain time:

FAQs

Can I use supplements to boost my immunity?

We’re receiving even more inquiries than usual about using supplements such as elderberry, zinc, and vitamin C to “boost immunity.” Unfortunately, there is no good data to suggest that these supplements have a protective effect against coronavirus. Additionally, the use of supplements in pregnancy and lactation comes with potential concerns.

The first concern is the lack of regulation. Dietary supplements do not require the same oversight by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) as medications do, which means that supplement manufacturers do not have to prove the safety and effectiveness of their products before they hit the shelves. Supplements may be contaminated with other ingredients (such as prescription medications or lead), and differences may be found between the amount or ingredient listed on the label and what is actually in the product.

The second concern about supplements is that usually they are not well studied for use in pregnancy and lactation. Without good research, we just don’t know how something like elderberry might affect a developing baby or breastfed infant. Mega-doses of any vitamin (like the 1000 mg of vitamin C commonly found in some supplements) are of particular concern as they are much higher than what is recommended for pregnant or breastfeeding women in a single day. Generally speaking, if you are eating a healthy diet and taking a prenatal vitamin, you are probably covering all your vitamin and mineral needs. Taking additional supplements might present increased risks to your pregnancy or your breastfed baby, with no clear evidence that they would effectively boost your immunity. You can read more on our Herbal Products Fact Sheet.

Are cleaning products safe for me and my baby?

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommend cleaning and disinfecting high-touch surfaces as one way to help prevent exposure to the virus. This means wiping down doorknobs, light switches, desks, faucets, electronics, and more… but does all this exposure to cleaning products increase risks to a pregnancy or a breastfed baby?

Our previous Baby Blog on household cleaners explains that when you use cleaning products as directed, the actual exposure to your developing baby or breastfed infant is likely to be quite low. Even if you can smell the fumes, brief inhalation while cleaning generally won’t allow for much absorption of these kinds of compounds into your blood. Likewise, your skin is a surprisingly good barrier that prevents significant absorption of cleaning products through the skin. Any chemicals that might get into your blood through inhalation or skin contact typically won’t reach the developing baby or get into your breastmilk in any meaningful quantity. Working in a ventilated area and wearing gloves when using cleaning products can further reduce your exposure, and help prevent respiratory and skin irritation. And of course, wash your hands after cleaning.

Should I still go to my prenatal appointments?

You’ve read you should stay home as much as possible since this virus can spread easily from person to person. This is true, but your prenatal appointments are still important! These visits are vital opportunities for your provider to assess the health of your pregnancy and identify any issues that might affect you or your developing baby. Some healthcare providers are offering some appointments virtually (over the internet) or spreading out the time between appointments a bit longer than normal. But sometimes you will have be seen in person, especially for screenings, labs, and vaccines, such as the flu shot and Tdap vaccine that help protect both mom and baby against serious illness.

If you haven’t already, talk to your pregnancy care provider about any changes to your upcoming appointments. For virtual visits, ask what technology (phone, laptop, etc.) you will need to connect with your provider, and write down a list of questions so you don’t forget to ask anything. Just like a regular appointment, it can be helpful to have someone “come along” virtually to help make sure all your concerns are addressed. For in-person visits, your provider may ask that you come alone (no partner, no kids). While there, try to stay at least 6 feet away from other patients in the waiting room, wear a cloth face cover, and don’t forget to wash your hands! For more prevention tips, check out guidance from the CDC here.

Why have they delayed my fertility procedure?

Many kinds of medical procedures are being put on hold as a way to help prevent the spread of coronavirus and reserve essential medical supplies for critical medical care. For this reason, the American Society for Reproductive Medicine has made the difficult decision to suspend initiation of new treatment cycles (intrauterine insemination or IUI and in vitro fertilization or IVF) for the time being. We completely empathize with anyone who gets this news. When you’ve been trying to get pregnant and each passing month feels like another missed opportunity, a setback like this is the last thing you want. During this difficult but necessary delay, make sure to continue practicing healthy habits like staying active, avoiding alcohol, and taking a prenatal vitamin with at least 400 mcg of folic acid every day. That way, you’ll be ready to go once you get the green light that IUI and IVF treatments are back on.

I still have to go to work every day. What can I do to avoid getting COVID-19?

If you aren’t able to work from home, you might be worried that going in to work could increase your chance of contact with the virus. How true this is might depend on your job situation. If you have contact with the public at work and you are pregnant or breastfeeding, you could talk to your employer about being temporarily reassigned to another role that limits your contact with other people. However, not every workplace will be able to accommodate this request. CDC workplace recommendations for everyone include strategies such as not shaking hands, wiping down frequently-touched surfaces, limiting in-person meetings, maintaining at least 6 feet of distance between you and people with whom you need to interact, not sharing food, and of course, staying home if you are sick. In addition, CDC guidelines recommend wearing a cloth face covering when you may be near other people to help reduce the spread of the virus.

If you are a pregnant healthcare worker, be sure your employer knows you are pregnant before you provide any direct patient care to a person with confirmed or suspected COVID-19. When possible, and depending on staffing needs, management should consider limiting your exposure to these patients. This is especially true if you perform procedures with a higher chance of coming into contact with a patient’s respiratory droplets (such as intubation). If you do provide care to a patient with confirmed or suspected COVID-19, be sure to follow the Infection Control guidelines for all healthcare personnel. Our fact sheet on Reproductive Hazards of the Workplace can answer additional questions about staying safe at work during pregnancy and while breastfeeding.

I’m stressed! Can this affect my pregnancy?

With the constant news stream about the pandemic, it can be tough not to feel anxious or depressed during this time. Plus, social distancing means that many women are separated from their support network of friends and family members. Add in trying to work from home with a partner and/or kids, and it’s easy to see why many women are feeling stressed out! We discussed mental health and COVID-19 at length in our recent podcast episode, which you can listen to here.

One big takeaway from the podcast? Some studies suggest that ongoing stress and uncontrolled depression or anxiety during pregnancy can increase the chance of outcomes such as preterm birth and low birth weight. So, if you feel like your mental health is suffering because of this pandemic, we encourage you to reach out to your healthcare provider (maybe virtually!) to figure out the best approach for treatment. Some women can benefit from making simple changes in their daily habits (like watching less news and getting more fresh air), while others might need to use a medication to help manage their symptoms. If that’s the case, MotherToBaby can share with you what is known about your particular antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication in pregnancy and/or lactation.

Whatever your concerns about COVID-19 or other exposures might be, please know that MotherToBaby is here for you with evidence-based answers. Please reach out to us with your questions. We’re all in this together.