Adoption: Sharing the Journey
“This is my first child, and I don’t know what to do!” exclaimed Lyndsay, a newly pregnant woman when I answered MotherToBaby’s free and confidential helpline. Lyndsay explained that she is taking several medications and was concerned about their potential effects on her unborn baby. She is currently very new to recovery from cocaine and opioid use disorder. She is taking buprenorphine and naloxone for the opioid use disorder, along with baclofen and n-acetylcysteine (NAC) for cocaine cravings. Her medication regimen also includes aripiprazole, escitalopram, bupropion and mirtazapine for depression, mood stabilization and insomnia.
“This combination has been working well for me,” she explained. “Having that said, I wonder if the treatments are increasing my chances for pregnancy complications or birth defects in my baby?” She wondered if she would be better off getting off the buprenorphine and naloxone now.
In preparing to answer her concerns, I reached out to Ellen Kolomeyer, PhD, PMH-C, a licensed clinical psychologist certified in perinatal mental health, who is part of the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline team to assist us in providing the best answers about recovery treatment while pregnant. The National Maternal Mental Health Hotline provides 24/7 support to pregnant and postpartum individuals experiencing challenges with mood and anxiety, as well as their support women and loved ones through its phone and text line 1-833-TLC-MAMA.
Q: How common is it for a woman in recovery and who is also pregnant to be treating an opioid use disorder with medications?
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), about 7% of pregnant women used opioids during pregnancy, with one in five of those women reporting that they misused opioids during pregnancy. But, only about half of the pregnant women who use opioids during pregnancy are in recovery, so it is wonderful that Lyndsay is reaching out to learn how to best care for herself and her baby. I hope her story shows that it is possible to get help and have a healthy pregnancy.
Q: What treatments can be used?
When a pregnant woman is dealing with opioid addiction, healthcare providers often prescribe medicines like methadone and buprenorphine. It is best if treatment starts before someone gets pregnant to help both the mother and baby stay healthy. But sometimes, people face challenges that make it hard to get treatment. These can be personal issues like having a tough time managing feelings or problems with relationships. There can also be unfair judgments from others about drug addiction that make it harder for people to seek help. Besides giving medicine, it is also important to get help for mental health. This means talking to a counselor or therapist about the things that might be causing someone to use drugs in the first place.
Q: Is discontinuing treatment while pregnant recommended? Why or why not?
It is important to know that stopping opioid use suddenly during pregnancy can be dangerous for both the pregnant woman and the baby. Managing opioid use with medication is a better way to stay healthy and reduce the risk of going back to using drugs. So, it is best to keep taking the medication rather than stopping it while pregnant. It is crucial to talk with a healthcare provider before making any decisions about treatment.
Q: Should a pregnant woman expect her healthcare provider to start or stop medications or switch to alternatives?
Each pregnancy is different, so there is no one answer that fits everyone. Depending on the situation, a pregnant woman might start, stop, or switch medications. It is common for healthcare providers to talk about medications, like methadone https://mothertobaby.org/fact-sheets/methadone/ or buprenorphine, https://mothertobaby.org/fact-sheets/buprenorphine/ and suggest starting them if needed. Sometimes, providers might think about changing to a different medication but they will carefully consider the risks and benefits. It is best to see a healthcare provider who knows how to give the right recommendations for pregnant women.
Q: What can a pregnant woman do to advocate for herself in this scenario?
Pregnant women who are struggling with opioid use often face challenges in getting the right information and help. Even though there can be judgment from others, pregnant individuals can benefit from speaking up for themselves. One important way to do this is to understand the reasons behind the problems they are facing and to talk about their goals.
Research shows that many people turn to drugs because of past trauma, not having enough support or money, dealing with bad feelings, and having tough relationships, among other reasons. By thinking about their own situation and struggles, individuals can work to address the main issues they’re facing.
I want every pregnant woman in this situation to know that they can still have a good relationship with their baby and take care of their baby’s needs. It is a good idea to find a healthcare provider who knows a lot about opioid use disorder to get the right support. Building a strong support system could be the key to making a big change and getting better.
There are some great ways that pregnant women recovering from opioid use disorder can build their support system. Talking through personal hardships in support groups, with home visitors, with a counselor, or with a therapist can help build the tools and confidence you need to learn how to advocate for yourself and your baby with medical providers.
Q: What is the best way that a pregnant woman can share her questions and concerns with their Obstetric provider?
To make sure you get the best support, it is helpful to find a healthcare provider who knows about substance use issues. One great way for a pregnant woman to talk about their questions and worries with their OB is to write them down before an appointment and bring the list with them. As the pregnancy progresses, working together with the provider to plan for labor, delivery, and postpartum care can get the parent-to-be ready for what is ahead at each stage. I suggest asking your obstetric provider to be open and share information throughout the process so that there are fewer surprises when it is time for the birth, after-birth care, and taking care of the newborn.
Q: After delivery, what does a typical newborn period look like for the parent(s) and baby?
It is common for babies to experience withdrawal symptoms from medications used to treat opioid addiction (also called neonatal abstinence syndrome), but this should not stop a healthcare provider from prescribing the medications or pregnant women from taking them. After the baby is born, parents should team up with their baby’s healthcare provider to keep an eye on the newborn and get help when needed. It is important for parents to be involved in their baby’s care and spend time bonding with them. If parents feel they are not getting these chances, they can speak up and ask for them.
Withdrawal symptoms in a baby are treatable, but some babies need to be monitored extra closely and around the clock. It can also be helpful to prepare ahead of time and learn if it is possible that your baby might go to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) instead of staying in the recovery room with you. While unexpected things can happen in any pregnancy and birth, you could ask your providers ahead of time whether they think there is a reason your baby might go to the NICU and what you might expect. For example, you might want to know how long your baby could be in the NICU and make a plan for advocating to still be able to see, touch, and care for your baby as often as possible during your baby’s medical care.
Q: Can you share recommended resources?
There are widely available, free, and confidential programs, resources, and provider directories that anyone can access including the following:
- National Maternal Mental Health Hotline provides 24/7 support to pregnant and postpartum individuals experiencing challenges with mood and anxiety, as well as their support persons and loved ones. Call or text 1-833-TLC-MAMA.
- MotherToBaby provides information about exposures, like medications and diseases, during pregnancy and while breastfeeding through its free phone service 866-626-6847, text 855-999-3525, email and live chat via MotherToBaby.org.
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) offers a directory to find medical providers who specialize in treating opioid use disorders. Locate a practitioner here. SAMHSA also provides a National Helpline that can provide treatment referral and information 24/7. Call 1-800-662-HELP.
- Postpartum Support International HelpLine provides basic information, support, and resources for pregnant, postpartum, and parenting individuals and their support persons and loved ones. This line is not 24/7 but messages are returned daily. Call or text 1-800-944-4773.
- Postpartum Support International Provider Directory lists medical and mental healthcare professionals who are specially certified to care for pregnant and postpartum individuals. Access the directory here.
- The Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 by calling or texting 988.
- Circle of Security is an evidence-based program that helps parents build secure parent-child relationships, effectively meet babies’ needs, and help parents break cycles from their own childhoods that they do not wish to carry over to their children. Learn more here and a Circle of Security Parent Educator here.
We had just shared a lot of information with Lyndsay. She was relieved to hear that her recovery treatment was going to allow her to stay well in pregnancy and give her the best chance to have a healthy baby. “I feel like I have a better idea of what questions I need to ask my OB and pediatrician,” she told us. “I feel less alone in this now and it looks like there are places I can go to get more information too.”
References:
MotherToBaby Blog: “Dear Opioid-Addicted Moms-To-Be, We are Here for You”
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2022). About opioid use during pregnancy.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2022). Treatment for opioid use disorder before, during, and after pregnancy.
Gerdts-Andresen, T. (2021). Circle of security-parenting: a systematic review of effectiveness when using the parent training Programme with multi-problem families. Nordic Journal of Social Research, 12(1), 1-26.
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Horton, E., & Murray, C. (2015). A quantitative exploratory evaluation of the circle of security‐parenting program with mothers in residential substance‐abuse treatment. Infant mental health journal, 36(3), 320-336.
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. (2018). Clinical guidance for treating pregnant and parenting women with opioid use disorder and their infants. Vol HHS Publication No.(SMA) 18-5054.
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. (2024). Evidence-based, whole-person care for pregnant women who have opioid use disorder. SAMHSA Advisory. https://store.samhsa.gov/sites/default/files/whole-person-care-pregnant-people-oud-pep23-02-01-002.pdf
Note: This information should not take the place of medical care and advice from your healthcare providers.
