Stress, Pregnancy & the COVID-19 Pandemic: When You Have Anxiety about Having Anxiety

Sometimes we have anxiety about…well, having anxiety. Kristen contacted MotherToBaby and was asking about ways to manage her already extremely high anxiety around pregnancy and birth during the pandemic. Should I even try to get pregnant right now? How will I deal with my anxiety and stress if I do become pregnant? What if almost no one in my family can even come to the hospital when I go into labor? How can I deal with my anxiety during labor and birth? I could tell she had a tremendous amount on her mind.

It is completely normal to feel stressed and anxious, and Kristen is not alone. Many people, regardless of whether they are pregnant during the time of COVID-19 or not, are experiencing higher levels of anxiety. The important thing is to address the anxious feelings and learn ways to manage them. I have some ideas on how to do just that! But one thing I need to emphasize: if your anxiety is excessive, ongoing, difficult to control, and interferes with your daily living, this may be a sign of generalized anxiety disorder and I encourage you to talk to your doctor or a mental health professional.

Managing Anxiety

There are ways to manage anxiety and stress that may be commonly shared, but in case you haven’t heard them before below are some tips you can try at home:

  • Exercise, even if it is going for a brief walk outside
  • Call a friend just to catch up
  • Volunteer or donate to a cause you care about – often doing things to help others actually can make you feel good
  • Try to eat healthy, nourishing foods
  • Journal as a way to express what you are feeling
  • Take a break from your screen time on phones, tablets and TV – especially before bed
  • If you feel like nothing really helps to address your feelings of anxiety and stress, or if you are feeling really down, make an appointment to talk to your healthcare provider and be honest about how you’re feeling

If you do feel like you need to talk to your healthcare provider, how do you do it? Remind yourself that healthcare providers are not only trained to talk about mental health topics with their patients, but that they likely talk to multiple people every day or week about them. Sometimes pregnancy increases anxiety that is already present, and for others it may be that they are experiencing it for the first time. Being pregnant does not mean that you are immune from or that you cannot be treated for mental health issues.

Before you go to see your healthcare provider, you can write down some notes on what you hope to say. Try to be as honest as possible and ask about the variety of options you have to address your anxiety or symptoms, including what you can try at home, who you may be able to see for some form of talk therapy, and if necessary, what medications the provider may recommend trying. Remember, just because you bring up anxiety or mental health, it does not mean you will be put on a medication. Equally as important, if you need to take a medication to help you manage better, there are several options you can take during your pregnancy.

Working on dealing with your anxiety before becoming pregnant is always a great idea, but you can address it at any point during pregnancy or in the postpartum period. There is never a bad time to improve your mental health (doing so is not only good for you, but also good for your baby) and it is never too late. In addition, I have had women express that admitting they need help makes them feel weak or selfish. In truth, it is the opposite – it takes courage to ask for support when we need it!

COVID-19, Labor and Delivery

The other piece of Kristen’s worry was having support in the delivery room. Due to COVID-19 many hospitals and birthing centers may be reducing the number of support people someone can have present during delivery. In addition, no one may be allowed in nearby waiting rooms. Giving birth can be one of the most challenging events for a person and having support during labor and delivery is incredibly important for getting through it with both a healthy mom and a healthy baby. First, you should speak with your planned delivery hospital/center to learn what their most current rules are for time of delivery and ask about any extra precautions they are taking due to COVID-19. Once you have that information, you can figure out what your game plan is. Other things to consider include:

  • Does the hospital offer doulas? Would you want to hire your own? If you hire one and s/he is not allowed in the delivery room, can she call in and be there via facetime and text? Can she spend extra time going over pain management techniques with you and your support partner in advance if she is unable to be there herself?
  • You can also consider programs like Hypnobirthing or Lamaze classes that really work with women to be confident in managing their experience during labor and delivery. Sometimes the type of prenatal education you choose to receive can help you feel more prepared and aware of what to expect, which alone may help reduce fear of the unknown.

In short, try not to panic with all of the questions you may have about dealing with anxiety. Write down your questions and make sure to ask your healthcare provider and the place you plan to deliver all of them. Prepare for what you can, take care of yourself, ask for help when you need it and trust that you have the strength to get through anything – because you do.


Stress, Pregnancy & the COVID-19 Pandemic: When You Have Anxiety about Having Anxiety

As the famous song croons, “Summertime and the living is easy….” Summer is finally here! COVID-19 has interfered with outdoor gatherings, but people are starting to venture out…with good social distancing, of course! Outdoor activities mean more sun exposure, and healthcare providers recommend protecting your skin from the sun. These recommendations stem from concerns that the sun’s UV (ultraviolet) rays can damage the skin and increase the risk for skin cancer and early aging. Studies show that an exposure as short as 15 minutes in duration can cause skin damage.

Sunscreen and Pregnancy

Pregnant women often ask MotherToBaby about whether sunscreen is ok to use during pregnancy. The US Food and Drug Administration (FDA) regulates sunscreen ingredients to ensure safety and effectiveness. The FDA is currently in the process of updating requirements, so stay tuned for news on that front. The FDA reminds us that, “Given the recognized public health benefits of sunscreen use, Americans should continue to use sunscreen with other sun protective measures as this important rulemaking effort moves forward.”

What’s in Sunscreen?

There are two types of UV rays that cause skin damage: UV-A and UV-B. Sunscreens that protect against both types of rays are called ‘broad spectrum’. There are many different active ingredients in sunscreens sold in the US. Some contain chemicals like oxybenzone, an agent banned in some areas because it is harmful to coral. It used to be thought that because they were applied topically to the skin, sunscreens did not end up in the bloodstream. However, several recent studies have found that there is some absorption of sunscreen chemicals through the skin, although in relatively small amounts. Many of these sunscreen chemicals have not been studied very well in pregnancy, although they are not known to have a negative effect on the pregnancy or baby.   Aside from active sunscreen ingredients, many products contain other ingredients such as CBD oil (made from the marijuana plant) that have not been studied well in pregnancy. Read the label! Apply your sunscreen properly and then wash your hands.

Alternatives

One alternative is to use a mineral sunscreen such as titanium dioxide and zinc oxide. These are physical blocking agents and stay on top of the skin. That means they are not absorbed through the skin and may be a good choice. These mineral sunscreens are best applied as a lotion rather than a spray since they may be a hazard when inhaled.

Also, limit your exposure by using a hat and other protective clothing, and not going out in the sun during peak hours (between 10a – 2p).

Our last bit of advice? Enjoy your summer!


Stress, Pregnancy & the COVID-19 Pandemic: When You Have Anxiety about Having Anxiety

Lately, it seems like every few months a new infectious disease makes the headlines. The COVID-19 pandemic dominated the news cycle for some time, but as more and more people get vaccinated and the number of severe cases starts to decrease, the media’s focus has shifted to other known or emerging threats. From the flu and respiratory syncytial virus (RSV), to mpox and syphilis, infections seem to be spreading like wildfire. Most recently, measles has made yet another comeback, prompting many women who are planning pregnancy, currently pregnant, or breastfeeding to make sure they are taking steps to avoid infection.

When I logged into our live chat service at www.mothertobaby.org on Tuesday morning, a chat from Alyssa popped up right away. “I’m currently 18 weeks pregnant and there was a measles case reported at my son’s preschool. Do I need to be worried?”

It’s understandable that Alyssa would be concerned. Measles (also known as rubeola) is a highly contagious respiratory disease caused by a virus. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) the measles virus can live for up to two hours in an airspace where the infected person coughed or sneezed. If people breathe the contaminated air or touch the infected surface, then touch their eyes, nose, or mouth, they can become infected. Measles is so contagious that if one person has it, up to 90% of the people close to that person who are not immune will also become infected.

Symptoms of measles generally appear about 7-14 days after a person is infected, and can include high fever, dry cough, runny nose, red watery eyes, and a rash all over the body. To date, studies have not identified an increased risk for birth defects when pregnant women get infected with measles during pregnancy. However, research suggests that a measles infection can be associated with an increased risk for miscarriage, premature delivery (having the baby before 37 weeks), and stillbirth.

The first question I asked Alyssa on chat was if she had ever received the Measles, Mumps, and Rubella (MMR) vaccine. Just one dose is about 93% effective at preventing measles, while two doses is close to 97% effective, so it’s the best way to prevent this disease. These vaccines are routinely given in childhood, so Alyssa couldn’t remember if she had received both, but after texting her mom she was able to confirm that she was fully vaccinated. Whew, that was good news. Next we discussed the date of exposure. I asked Alyssa when the positive case was reported at daycare, to which she answered that it was about two weeks ago. More good news. Since neither Alyssa nor her son had experienced any symptoms yet, infection was unlikely.

Since measles doesn’t seem to be going away anytime soon, knowing how to best protect yourself against the illness at all reproductive life stages is important.

Pre-Conception: Women who are planning a pregnancy in the future should make sure they are up to date with their MMR vaccines BEFORE they get pregnant. If you can’t find your vaccine record, call your healthcare provider who may know. If they don’t have a record, a blood test (titer) can be done to determine if you have immunity to measles. If it turns out you are not immune, you’ll want to get two doses of MMR vaccine for optimal protection. Just make sure you wait at least one month after getting the last shot before attempting to get pregnant.

Pregnancy: Since pregnant women shouldn’t receive live vaccines (like MMR), the best thing you can focus on during pregnancy is prevention. Good hand washing is always a good idea. If there is a confirmed measles outbreak near you, consider avoiding crowded public places and steer clear of any locations that have been identified as a known risk.

Breastfeeding: Once you are no longer pregnant, the MMR vaccine can be administered. The CDC considers the MMR vaccine compatible with breastfeeding and side effects for the breastfed baby are not expected.

If you have any questions about measles infection or the MMR vaccine while planning a pregnancy, during pregnancy or while breastfeeding, MotherToBaby is here to help. Give us a call at 866-626-6847, text, or chat with one of our information specialists today.


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Stress, Pregnancy & the COVID-19 Pandemic: When You Have Anxiety about Having Anxiety

Is it a cold? The flu? Or is it COVID-19? Either way, it is miserable.

It is Friday afternoon. You are pregnant, or actively planning, and you wake up with a scratchy throat, pressure in your nose and forehead, and runny nose. You think you have a cold… or is it the flu or COVID-19? You have left a message with your healthcare provider to ask them about what to do and what medication you can take. You are worried about taking the wrong medication. As the hours pass, you think it is unlikely that you will be able to get in touch with them before the end of the workday. Now, you are worried about going into the weekend without medication.

What to do? First, try to figure out if it is a cold, flu, or COVID-19. Some healthcare providers may share instructions for this situation and/or give their pregnant patients a list of medications that they approve for common medical conditions. When this list is not provided, many pregnant women contact MotherToBaby specialists for help. Although MotherToBaby specialists cannot make specific medication recommendations, we can provide information on most medications based on the studies and how the drugs work.

Is It a Cold?

A cold is caused by one of more than 200 viruses. Colds can spread easily from person to person. Symptoms can include sore throat, runny or stuffy nose, sneezing and coughing, headache, and muscle aches. For healthy pregnant women, an infection with a cold is not associated with a higher risk to her or her developing baby. There is no testing for a cold. Generally, colds are treated with over-the-counter medications.

Is it the Flu?

Influenza, often called “the flu,” is an illness caused by a virus. Flu symptoms include fever (typically between 100°F to 104°F), chills, cough, sore throat, body aches, and tiredness. Pregnant women and their pregnancy are at higher risk from flu. Testing for flu is available in the doctor’s office and at some pharmacies. Antiviral medications are recommended for pregnant women even if the testing has not been completed due to the risks from flu.

Is it COVID-19?

COVID-19 is caused by the SARS-CoV-2 (virus). The symptoms of flu and COVID-19 are similar. Symptoms include fever, cough, shortness of breath, sore throat, body aches, headache and change of taste or smell. Some people may have symptoms that last a short time and others may get very sick. Pregnant women and their pregnancy are at higher risk from COVID-19 infection. Testing for COVID-19 is available over the counter. Medication is recommended by health organizations for pregnant women with COVID-19.

Fever

In adults, a fever is a temperature of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher. Most healthcare providers recommend acetaminophen to treat fever, headache, and body pain in pregnancy. Studies on acetaminophen use during pregnancy have not shown a higher risk to the developing baby when it is used as directed for a short time.

A high fever that is untreated in pregnancy increases the chance of birth defects. A temperature of 101°F that lasts for over 24 hours early in pregnancy may increase the risk for a birth defect of the spine. You can read more about fever at https://mothertobaby.org/fact-sheets/hyperthermia-pregnancy/.

Over the Counter and Self-care Treatments

Pharmacies have rows of cough and cold products. In pregnancy, it is best to take an alcohol-free medication that contains only those ingredients that address the specific symptoms. For example, if the only symptom is body aches, taking a multi-symptom medication for congestion, cough and body aches would mean unnecessarily exposing yourself and the developing baby to medications.

Below we review some over-the-counter cold treatments and self-care treatments. The options below do not cover all treatments and should not be considered a recommendation. Ideally, it is best to always discuss your symptoms with your healthcare provider, because they know you best and can take into account any unique health issues that you may have.

Medication for Cough

Because many cough syrups can contain up to 10% alcohol, it is important to select an alcohol-free cough syrup. Cough syrups may also contain ingredients for stuffy nose or pain. If the only issue is a cough, taking the medication with the least ingredients is preferred to minimize the exposure to the pregnancy.

Cough drops and throat lozenges can contain flavorings such as honey, menthol, or anesthetics to numb the throat. There is no warning about using these during pregnancy for cough or a sore throat.

Vitamin C and other vitamins are taken during a cold or for cold prevention. During pregnancy, it is recommended to limit vitamins to those in the prenatal category unless recommended by the healthcare provider. Vitamins, like medications, cross the placenta and expose the developing baby which does not have a need for higher doses and in some cases, could be harmful.

Tea and Honey

Honey and warm tea may be helpful in relieving a sore throat caused by coughing and may thin mucus so that the cough is more productive. There is no warning about eating honey in tea, toast, or any other food during pregnancy. Herbal tea does not have caffeine and if taken as a beverage, there is no warning. Black tea, green tea, and white tea may have caffeine. If taking tea with caffeine, it is important to read the label to learn about the amount of caffeine per cup. Pregnant women can have up to 200 mg of caffeine per day from all sources combined. If drinking decaf tea, there is no warning to pregnant women.

Medications for Nasal Congestion

A stuffy nose can cause painful sinuses and make it less enjoyable to eat and hard to sleep. Over-the-counter nasal decongestant choices fall into two categories: oral (pills by mouth) or nasal spray. Some oral decongestants are pseudoephedrine and phenylephrine. Nasal sprays may contain phenylephrine, oxymetazoline, or steroid medications. Taking an oral decongestant means that your developing baby will be exposed to the medication. Nasal sprays reduce the chance of exposure to your baby, depending on the frequency of use and dose. Always read the labels and take them as directed.

Nasal Congestion: Non-medication Options

Nasal irrigation (bulb syringe, squeeze bottle, or neti pot): Studies of nasal irrigation have not shown a proven benefit on the duration or severity of colds. However, some people who have used nasal irrigation have reported feeling better. For pregnant women, the most reassuring part is that it uses only water and saline, so there is no medication involved and no exposure to the pregnancy. It is important to use only previously boiled, distilled, or sterile water to irrigate; and to keep nasal irrigation equipment clean and sterilized to avoid the risk of infection.

Shower tablets/vaporizers: Shower vapor tablets have become popular because they might help clear stuffy noses for a short time. These tablets are placed on the shower floor and as the warm water reaches the tablet, it dissolves and makes a steam with a vaporizer-like effect. Most shower tablets ingredients include sodium carbonate, sodium bicarbonate (baking soda), and essential oils (such as peppermint, rosemary, eucalyptus, and lavender). There are no studies on the use of shower tablets during pregnancy, but essential oils are used in many candles, lotions, and other home products, so exposure to these oils is common. With use as directed, it is not expected that the ingredients in shower tablets would increase the chance for problems during pregnancy.

Humidifiers: Humidifiers are used to add moisture to the air and provide relief from sinus pressure, dry skin, and throat. They use only water so there is no medication exposure. It is important to keep humidifiers clean to avoid the risk of putting mold and bacteria into the air, which could then cause allergies.

Nasal strips: Nasal strips are marketed to people who have a hard time sleeping due to snoring, but they also claim to help with congestion from colds. Although there are no studies that show these products help with colds, there is some evidence that they may help with snoring by spreading the nose and widening the air passage. Nasal strips do not contain medication, so there is no concern about their use during pregnancy.

Electric Blankets and Heating Pads: Electric blankets are sometimes used by people with body chills from having the flu or a cold. Electric blankets produce heat that varies from 86°F (30°C) to 122°F (50°C), which can be comforting. However, there is some concern about the heat from use of electric blankets in early pregnancy, raising body temperature and increasing the risk of birth defects of the spine. However, the studies on electric blanket use during pregnancy have some problems and not all have shown problems in pregnancy. As the studies are unclear, pregnant women may want to avoid the higher heat for peace of mind.

Remedies to Avoid

Vitamin C and zinc: When you feel a cold coming on, you could be tempted to reach for vitamin C and zinc. This is not recommended during pregnancy. First, there is not enough evidence that vitamin C or zinc help in preventing or treating colds. Second, the doses of vitamin C and zinc in supplements for colds are higher than recommended doses for pregnant women. The recommended vitamin C dose is 80 mg for pregnant teens and 85 mg per day for pregnant adults. The recommended dose for zinc is 12 mg for pregnant teens and 11 mg per day for pregnant adults. If you are taking prenatal vitamins, it is likely that they contain the vitamin C and zinc that you need for the day.

Non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs): For most healthy pregnant women, over-the-counter pain relievers such as ibuprofen, naproxen, and aspirin are generally not recommended during pregnancy. NSAIDs are associated with a risk for premature closure of the ductus arteriosus (a heart and lung condition) in the baby if the medication is used at higher doses in the second half of pregnancy. Although low dose aspirin is sometimes recommended in pregnancy under a doctor’s supervision to treat or prevent specific medical conditions, regular strength aspirin and other NSAIDs are not typically recommended for treating pain or fever in pregnancy.

Herbal products: Many herbal supplements marketed for treating colds and flu have not been studied in pregnancy, so the possible risks are not known. In addition, the benefits of using herbal supplements are not always proven. For example, echinacea has been promoted as a cold remedy, but a review of over 24 studies with over 4,000 participants did not find that it shortened the number of days for a cold compared to people who did not take echinacea.

Prevention

Vaccination is key and the best tool that we have for preventing flu and COVID-19 or reducing the severity of the symptoms if you do get infected. Studies involving many thousands of pregnant women have not shown a higher risk of birth defects or complications. MotherToBaby has fact sheets with information on both the flu vaccine and COVID-19 vaccine.

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